Backups,
I have used a number of different methods over time, including WordPress plugins, xcloner, and others but nothing was quite as simple and complete as I was looking for.
Finally over the last couple of weeks I found something that meets all my criteria, automatic, includes files and databases, and backs up to another site (i.e not on a Dreamhost server).
The destination for my backups is Amazon S3, cheap (no really cheap) reliable storage accessible from anywhere. Next I found S3 Tools, command line tools for Linux to interact with S3. I simply copied the files up to my server, ran s3cmd –configure, plugged in my access and secret key, S3 bucket name and I was connected to S3.
I was going to write my own scripts to dump MySQL data and tar up some directories, but happily I found someone had already done that, with a few simple modifications to that script, and a quick cron job I had my backups up and running in not time.
There are still a few tweaks I would like to make to this process, but for now I finally have my backups running the way I like them.